Toastmasters

District 36
http://www.district36.org/

General Resources

Design Pattterns (including GOF)
http://www.dofactory.com/Patterns/Patterns.aspx

Embarcadero
http://www.embarcadero.com/products/products.html

Visual Paradigm
http://www.visualparadigm.com

Fabforce (DBDesigner)
http://www.fabforce.net/

JBoss IDE (Plugin For Eclipse)
http://www.jboss.com/products/jbosside

Cubicle Etiquette
http://papa.essortment.com/cubicleetiquett_ppb.htm

Software Engineering Body of Knowledge
http://www.swebok.org/

Guide to the Project Management Body of Knowledge http://egweb.mines.edu/eggn491/Information%20and%20Resources/pmbok.pdf

JavaOne Site

JavaOne Online is a great deal! I hope it stays $25.
http://javaoneonline.mentorware.net/

Eclipse SWT

Tools for using Eclipse SWT.
http://cloudgarden.com/jigloo/

This describes SWT very nicely.
http://www.developer.com/java/other/article.php/3330861

Frameworks Quagmire

Check out the frameworks quagmire.
http://www.software.org/quagmire/

Recommended Path from Rational

Documentation is available at http://www-306.ibm.com/software/rational/support/documentation/